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How Do You Handle the Same Question 20 Times a Day?
My mom has Alzheimer's and has started asking the same questions over and over, especially about what time my dad is coming home. Sometimes she asks the question again before I've even finished answering it. I'm trying to be patient, but by the end of the day, I'm emotionally exhausted. I know she isn't doing it on purpose, and I don't want her to feel frustrated or embarrassed. Does anyone have tips for responding in a way that keeps her calm without making either of us upset? Have visual... more
Posted by: Sarah Mathews on September 3rd, 2026 caregiving tips (0)
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How do you handle the evening confusion?
My wife seems to become much more confused and restless in the late afternoon and evening than she is during the day. She starts asking when we're going home, wants to leave the house, and sometimes becomes upset when I try to explain that we're already home. I've heard other caregivers refer to this as "sundowning," but I'm not sure what routines or changes actually help. If you've dealt with this, what has made evenings calmer and safer for your loved one?
Posted by: James Thompson on August 26th, 2026 caregiving tips (0)
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Should I correct my sister when she remembers something incorrectly?
My sister has Alzheimer's and she often tells stories that aren't quite the way they actually happened. Sometimes she'll remember an event from years ago but change who was there or what happened, and she'll become upset if I try to correct her. I've started wondering whether it really matters if she remembers things differently, especially when correcting her only seems to make her frustrated. How do you decide when to gently correct someone and when it's better to simply listen and go along wi... more
Posted by: Rick on August 11th, 2026 caregiving tips (0)
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How do I get Dad to shower without an argument?
My dad has dementia and has recently started refusing to shower or change his clothes. He gets upset whenever I bring it up and tells me that he already showered, even when I know he hasn't. I've tried reminding him, giving him choices, and waiting until later in the day, but we still end up arguing about it. Has anyone found a way to help with personal care without making their loved one feel embarrassed or like they're being bossed around?
Posted by: Daniel Hood on August 10th, 2026 caregiving tips (0)
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How do I handle my mom asking the same question over and over?
My mom has started asking me the same questions every few minutes, especially about when my dad is coming home, even though he passed away several years ago. I know she isn't doing it to frustrate me, but after hearing the same question twenty times I sometimes lose my patience and then feel terrible about it. Should I keep explaining the situation every time, or is it better to redirect her attention? I'd really appreciate hearing what has worked for other families dealing with repetitive quest... more
Posted by: Linda Matthews on January 6th, 2026 caregiving tips (0)
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Tips for Managing Daily Routines
I wanted to share some strategies that have helped me maintain a consistent daily routine for my mother who has dementia. Creating a structured schedule has really reduced her anxiety. What routines have worked for you?
Posted by: Anonymous on December 9th, 2025 caregiving tips (2)